Social media.
Is is true that social media such as Facebook,Instagram and Twitter are making our lives unhappy?Well it depends on how you use it really.The problem is that people use the social media excessively until that social media are interrupting their daily lives.Sometimes people use social media as a way to get recognized and famous,much of it in a stupid and nonsensical way.People became drunk with popularity.They fall in an illusion that by being popular and gaining more follower,they'll become more happier
People are really getting distracted with social media,i get it,it's addicting.But beware,do not let the social media take over your life.As i get on with my life,i see that must of our usual social interaction like talking at the dining table,talking with family member during "kenduri",hanging out at "kedai mamak" and so on are being replaced with people looking down on their phone,either texting or doing something else with their phone.Some people might see this as normal,but not for me.Sometimes i get really pissed when i'm hanging out with my friend,all they do is looking at their,like really,if you asked me to hang out with you guys just to play with your phone,i might as well stay at home play some games or read some book or something.You might not notice this,but over time,when all you do is playing with your phone all day long even when someone is trying to talk to you,you COMMUNICATION SKILL will deteriorate and as we live in the age where we have to deal with other people almost every day,the absence of communication skill will be the doom of you.Because all you do is type,type and type.Rarely had any face to face interaction with other people can take a toll in your psychology.
Another thing that's been bugging me off is young kids are also using social media.I blame the parents for this.Why would you make an account for a 6 year old girl/boy.Not only it will effect the kids communication and social skill,it will also make the kids lose the etiquette and moral value that they should learn when they're still young.Funny thing is when the kids rebelled againts their parent,the society blame the kids,really,i admit the kid are also to blame in this the fault mostly come from the parents.And then the older generation whine and complain as why kids these days are so rude.Remember uncle and aunty,the fault in this generation is the mistake of the pass generation.
It's not that i hate social media,it's just that,people and society really is changing because of the social media.I think the social media industry is really taking advantage of the people crazy with fame and popularity.And the sad part is,it's growing.
Although i'm not a parent and not qualify as one,here's an advice for the parents,you can either take it if you're open minded or leave it if you think your method of rising your kids are flawless,don't expose your kids to the current technology yet,teach them the moral value of life first.let them read many books,and spend your time together doing activities together like picnic and such,and when they're mature enough,able to differentiate between good and bad,only then you let them use social media.You might disagree with my advice and opinion and that's okay,i'm not that smart after all.However i'm smart enough to know the danger of social media and also the benefit of it.
People are really getting distracted with social media,i get it,it's addicting.But beware,do not let the social media take over your life.As i get on with my life,i see that must of our usual social interaction like talking at the dining table,talking with family member during "kenduri",hanging out at "kedai mamak" and so on are being replaced with people looking down on their phone,either texting or doing something else with their phone.Some people might see this as normal,but not for me.Sometimes i get really pissed when i'm hanging out with my friend,all they do is looking at their,like really,if you asked me to hang out with you guys just to play with your phone,i might as well stay at home play some games or read some book or something.You might not notice this,but over time,when all you do is playing with your phone all day long even when someone is trying to talk to you,you COMMUNICATION SKILL will deteriorate and as we live in the age where we have to deal with other people almost every day,the absence of communication skill will be the doom of you.Because all you do is type,type and type.Rarely had any face to face interaction with other people can take a toll in your psychology.
Another thing that's been bugging me off is young kids are also using social media.I blame the parents for this.Why would you make an account for a 6 year old girl/boy.Not only it will effect the kids communication and social skill,it will also make the kids lose the etiquette and moral value that they should learn when they're still young.Funny thing is when the kids rebelled againts their parent,the society blame the kids,really,i admit the kid are also to blame in this the fault mostly come from the parents.And then the older generation whine and complain as why kids these days are so rude.Remember uncle and aunty,the fault in this generation is the mistake of the pass generation.
It's not that i hate social media,it's just that,people and society really is changing because of the social media.I think the social media industry is really taking advantage of the people crazy with fame and popularity.And the sad part is,it's growing.
Although i'm not a parent and not qualify as one,here's an advice for the parents,you can either take it if you're open minded or leave it if you think your method of rising your kids are flawless,don't expose your kids to the current technology yet,teach them the moral value of life first.let them read many books,and spend your time together doing activities together like picnic and such,and when they're mature enough,able to differentiate between good and bad,only then you let them use social media.You might disagree with my advice and opinion and that's okay,i'm not that smart after all.However i'm smart enough to know the danger of social media and also the benefit of it.
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