Snowflakes

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Hey, been quite couple of months since I last wrote on this blog and 2018 is approaching the end so I ought to wrote something. I like to talk about emotions.

While surfing the social media such as twitter and Facebook, mainly twitter. I see such a lot of people who are always complaining about their hardship in life, I have no problems with these people as they might view social media as a way to release their everyday tension. However, there is also one more group that is dominant in twitter, I called it the sensitive group.

Why do I call it the sensitive group? Because they're such a snowflakes and really like to enlarge a minor issues and thus, creating pointless and senseless argument in social media, which, in my observations, solve absolutely nothing. Another traits of these people is that they complain almost everything in life. People told them they're ugly, they create a whole thread condemning that people action. Sure it's wrong calling people ugly, but whining almost every time about it doesn't justify it either.

I think the solution of being so sensitive, almost too sensitive is to just brush off those mockery. Realise that if you took the time to respond to the mockery or criticism, you already lost to that person. Sure it does give satisfaction to reply back to those criticism, but only for brief moment. The problem won't be solved. So it I think if you practice the "I don't give a fuck" philosophy in life. However, don't take the philosophy to the extreme and ignore any advice and critism that you received. Some of those criticism is actually useful to you. What I mean is to filter those critism, practice the moderate way of not giving a damn what people say.

One of example is to try and change the changeable part of your life such as your attitude. If someone said that you're a scumbag and a jerk, maybe try to take those words seriously and recheck on yourself. If someone critised your face, don't give a damn what they say because it is an unchangeable part of your life.

May we have the patience to change something that can be changed and serenity to something that can't be changed.

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