Too quick to judge, too slow to understand
I notice that one my profound weakness in myself is that i tend to judge a person whether my acquaintances or not to quickly without fully understanding the full situation at the moment or at least try to understand the situation.
This happens a lot.Like a lot well not to the point of repeating it every 1 minutes or so just constantly judging other people left and right.One time there's a girl that doesn't answer my question,she responded my question quite late because she's had a work to do at the moment.But I didn't know that,and I assumed that she's arrogant type of a person that won't bother to answer my question,by the way the questions is about mathematics which is not really my forte.
Anyway I doesn't get the respond in time that I want.I was impatient.All kind of thought passed on my head on why she still doesn't answer my question.And lastly I passed on a judgement on her,I value her as an arrogant person.I wrote on my Twitter on how I hate arrogant people without mentioning her name of course.
Two hours after I wrote on my Twitter about that girl.She answered my question.She apologized that she respond to my question quite late as she had some work to do.
And then it struck me.On how foolish I am to value a person fast.It also struck to me that i became the very person that I once hated.
A Judgemental Person.
How it occurred to me that I really are impatient thinking that the world revolves around me.Forgetting that other people have their own life to take care of.It is a courtesy enough as it is that people helped us whether answering our question or moving some stuff.Instead of judging them,we should be thankful to them.
I really should be patient.
I really should not judge a person to quickly.
I really should not demand stupid things.
We really should become a better person.
This happens a lot.Like a lot well not to the point of repeating it every 1 minutes or so just constantly judging other people left and right.One time there's a girl that doesn't answer my question,she responded my question quite late because she's had a work to do at the moment.But I didn't know that,and I assumed that she's arrogant type of a person that won't bother to answer my question,by the way the questions is about mathematics which is not really my forte.
Anyway I doesn't get the respond in time that I want.I was impatient.All kind of thought passed on my head on why she still doesn't answer my question.And lastly I passed on a judgement on her,I value her as an arrogant person.I wrote on my Twitter on how I hate arrogant people without mentioning her name of course.
Two hours after I wrote on my Twitter about that girl.She answered my question.She apologized that she respond to my question quite late as she had some work to do.
And then it struck me.On how foolish I am to value a person fast.It also struck to me that i became the very person that I once hated.
A Judgemental Person.
How it occurred to me that I really are impatient thinking that the world revolves around me.Forgetting that other people have their own life to take care of.It is a courtesy enough as it is that people helped us whether answering our question or moving some stuff.Instead of judging them,we should be thankful to them.
I really should be patient.
I really should not judge a person to quickly.
I really should not demand stupid things.
We really should become a better person.
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